Polyamory Being Honest, Polyamorous Mom, Fair & Equal for Everyone

In love it's best to come open to each other. Being in love with a married woman with kids. I've been there. She had five kids. At the time he wanted out too many kids for him they where not making enough money at the time to save themselves it made since to bring me in. After a while the kids got more stable, her and so he did. Now he doesn't want to get out of this and doesn't want me to leave because things would go back. Her parents got sick so they moved to their parents home. They would not understand their daughter having me and her husband because they where from 1912!

Meaningful emotional things! It's ok to be in love with a married woman. If open about it. A secret affair is all within the laws of nature. But can be pain. "She takes you to a motel and after not wanting to leave her after that only to have to go home where you smell her perfume on you knowing you won't do this again for another 7 years, till she has her 7 year itch. Cry!" Noted please be open about things! It's best to not be a secret in those terms is the point! But also sometimes you have to be the fish that jumps into the frying pan!

And is the point of Polyamory! About agreements people agree to that benefit everyone. If it's going to hurt with no benefit in the long run then don't do it. Love who you love as love should make stable not give anxiety as life is too short to play those games. Are you going to be alive 20 years from now? Best to be honest about things, knowing where or whos you are! Agreements for the happiness of both than to not! Many people live better than others. Wasting your life without joy? Why? Nature doesn't care otherwise, so in the laws of nature be with nature!

~~~~Family is hugely important to me, and one of the treasures of polyamory is that I have a lot more of it. Yes, it's a lot more work and, yes, sometimes the more conservative relatives feel awkward around us initially but I think it's important that we show up and normalize polyamory," she wrote in her essay. https://cafemom.com/lifestyle/polyamorous-mom-juggles-different-families-during-holidays

And I feel fine for now: $91 trillion debt problem!

With most of the money in the hands of the few. With the most just making not enough well someone has to pay the bill for all that and all related to that with the risk of the Trump types taking office wanting a backward life going forward into debt! Oh well just pretend it's not there. Let nature take it's course! "It's The End Of The World As We Know It, and I Feel Fine." That does not work hibernating trough it till you die because you will be dead!

~~~~Governments owe an unprecedented $91 trillion, an amount almost equal to the size of the global economy and one that will ultimately exact a heavy toll on their populations.

Debt burdens have grown so large — in part because of the cost of the pandemic that they now pose a growing threat to living standards even in rich economies, including the United States.

Yet, in a year of elections around the world, politicians are largely ignoring the problem, unwilling to level with voters about the tax increases and spending cuts needed to tackle the deluge of borrowing. In some cases, they’re even making profligate promises that could at the very least jack up inflation again and could even trigger a new financial crisis. https://www.cnn.com/2024/07/02/economy/global-debt-crisis/index.html