Really life is what you make it! If life is bad then it's best to make it better as it's better than not! Mines are mostly a point of emotional compatibility a vent for my loves filling a gap in her life making her and so all better. As Polyamory is to make all better. Like taking the stress off of my partner I had in 89 so she had less on her to deal with her five kids at the time with how they where living.
Me I see women as not slaves in relationships Like said to be a married woman's other concubine, gallant, secret or whatever you call it should be for the better of the good. Just a point of life to move forward like social mobility not to live like your parents! It's just a matter of that talk to what is needed what responsibility, boundaries there are. It's what you make it!
~~~~The concept of ‘soulmates’ has been around for centuries, but can one person meet all of our emotional, intellectual and physical needs?
Siobhan Marin travels Australia to meet people who are living beyond monogamy in polyamorous relationships, throuples and open marriages.
For many in this community, ethical non-monogamy isn’t just about sex.
It’s about questioning traditional ideas around love, loyalty and commitment.
Although polyamory is becoming more popular, especially among younger generations, it still carries challenges. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EeGuzNgPLc8
~~~~Russell argues that the laws and ideas about sex of his time were a potpourri from various sources and were no longer valid. The subjects range from criticisms of social norms, theories about their origins and tendencies, evolutionary psychology, and instinctual attachment to children (or lack thereof), among others. Notably, the book found marital rape to be common, stating: "Marriage is for woman the commonest mode of livelihood, and the total amount of undesired sex endured by women is probably greater in marriage than in prostitution." Russell also argues for increased availability of birth control, the decriminalization of homosexuality, improved sex education, elimination of obscenity laws, easier access to divorce, and greater freedom of women to pursue their own interests and careers. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_and_Morals
