If you are planning to make smoothies it's best to be open about it with each other. If you are not open the same will happen again as the light is on those kind of things. As I say about Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Polyandry, lovers etc. The point is to be fair with each other about it! Ethical! There is nothing wrong with a sex cult as long as there is agreements with each other! It's just a interpersonal circle agreement in reality!
It's the 21st century and smoothies are ok with fairness!
http://walmartramen.blogspot.com/2015/03/going-triad-into-21st-century.html
Me? I had my times sort of. In the late 90's I thought about hooking up with a married rich sex offender close but it didn't go. I thought she was just a rich lady behaving badly but later I found out she really was a sex offender! It's bad!
http://walmartramen.blogspot.com/2019/05/in-late-90s-i-though-about-hooking-up.html
http://walmartramen.blogspot.com/2014/02/banquet-servers.html
~~~~~‘I Was in One Mode: Protect Keith’: NXIVM Member Testifies About Naked Meetings, Group Sex, Dungeon Paddlings. In March 2018, Lauren Salzman, a high-ranking member in the self-empowerment organization NXIVM and a so-called “master” in the alleged sex cult DOS, was making a smoothie in the kitchen of a house outside Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, when her friend Loreta Garza, another NXIVM member, burst into the room. She told Salzman that cops had just arrived at the house to arrest Keith Raniere, the group’s charismatic head, and Salzman’s on-off lover of nearly 20 years. Watching Raniere skulk out of a walk-in closet as guns were pointed at her head, however, put all of his teachings, all of his promises, and all of their shared dreams together into perspective. “It never even crossed my mind that I would choose Keith and Keith would choose Keith,” Salzman said.
https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/lauren-salzman-nxivm-sex-slave-keith-raniere-testimony-trial-836547
https://www.cnn.com/2019/05/23/us/nxivm-sex-cult-key-players/index.html