Thursday, August 17, 2017

Terence McKenna's Thoughts On Monogamy



Love really does not have boundaries.
For me I tend to fall in love easy. Ask me and I am all ready there.
I am Polyamorous so I won't break up with anyone.
If it don't work I believe you should agree it's not working and note 
there is no need to hate. We are adults so we should talk like adults.

In love it's worth the effort it's worth living. What would life be not living?!

Failure Is The Secret To Success

It's said "Anarchy is the best environment for personal growth."
In that you should know that one can not learn if they do not fail!
You can't have the good without the bad. With no bad then you would 
not know what good is! Life's benchmark!

~~~~~Is failure a positive opportunity to learn and grow, or is it a negative experience that hinders success? How parents answer that question has a big influence on how much children think they can improve their intelligence through hard work, a study says.

"Parents are a really critical force in child development when you think about how motivation and mindsets develop," says Kyla Haimovitz, a professor of psychology at Stanford University. She coauthored the study, published in Psychological Science with colleague Carol Dweck, who pioneered research on mindsets. "Parents have this powerful effect really early on and throughout childhood to send messages about what is failure, how to respond to it."

Although there's been a lot of research on how these forces play out, relatively little looks at what parents can do to motivate their kids in school, Haimovitz says. This study begins filling that gap.

"There is a fair amount of evidence showing that when children view their abilities as more malleable and something they can change over time, then they deal with obstacles in a more constructive way," says Gail Heyman, a professor of psychology at the University of California at San Diego who was not involved in this study.

School district threatens to sue Legislature failing to educate children

In Oklahoma the state Legislature not being able to fund education or
even know what they are doing is being sued!
"Lawmakers don't have a clue how to fund education."
http://ktul.com/news/local/superintendent-lawmakers-dont-have-a-clue-how-to-fund-education

Keeping the same system without thinking ahead is fail!
Albert Einstein -  Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and
expecting different results.
http://walmartramen.blogspot.com/2017/06/kids-in-hell-and-poverty-in-america.html

Expecting different results... In Oklahoma? They where back with the
cigarette tax, a Poverty Tax. Things for the poor to spend most of their money
on giving less money everywhere else, less sales all over. Where it would be better
to tax chardonnay wine being it would be from a better revenue source being
it won't be keeping the most poor from doing without being it took most of their 
food money for the cigarettes.

So really education in Oklahoma with the budget cuts that are cuts they 
can go to zero! "Reductionist go to zero!" I see like a form of consumer based 
pricing for education giving the kids lower education as you get what you pay
for. Noting why parents want their kid to go to a Harvard and not a JR college.
Higher education higher income. And better labor force!

It's time for action. I said this relating for healthcare that the government 
should of sued the states for not supporting it's people making a burden
for the healthcare system. Saying that the many poor people hurt ObamaCare
being all the sick people on it. Why did they get that way in the first place?
It's the same as funding education why are we here from a long time
of not having funding?

Anyway it's good and correct for school districts to sue! 
It's time, about time!!!!!

~~~~~Oklahoma City school district threatens to sue Legislature
Oklahoma City Public Schools is threatening legal action against the state Legislature for failing its "constitutional" and "moral" responsibilities to educate children, district leaders said Thursday.

The school board is expected to decide Monday night whether to begin interviewing law firms for the purpose of suing the Legislature, specifically, the speaker of the house and the senate president pro tem.

"Oklahoma's legislative leadership has failed at their constitutional responsibility to provide textbooks for every child and their moral responsibility to put Oklahoma's children and their education first," board member Mark Mann told reporters outside Sequoyah Elementary School.

"While doing so, they have obstructed the Oklahoma City Board of Education from performing our constitutional role as intended. This is unacceptable."

Mann, flanked by Superintendent Aurora Lora and several board members, said the district is "prepared to exhaust all efforts, including litigation, in our fight to provide a quality education for the children of Oklahoma City Public Schools."

In a resolution members will consider Monday, the school board alleges that legislative leadership "has continued to ignore the voices of individual legislators of both parties, the governor and the state superintendent of schools as they call for adequate funding."

The resolution also states that legislative leadership has "ignored their constitutional responsibility to provide textbooks for every child by eliminating the instructional materials line item budget."

Additionally, the document states that legislative leadership has cut funding to pay for "requirements established by the Legislature — thereby leaving huge underfunded liabilities for Oklahoma City Public Schools."
http://newsok.com/school-district-threatens-to-sue-legislature-for-failing-kids/article/5560480?homePageWidget=1

The Revolution Will Not Be Televised, No Confederate Monuments!



People standing up against Trump and the stupidity of what laws
changes, loosing health care. Medicaid poor kids need, small town
health clinics closing. No wages going up in over 10 years now!
Business owners having to deal with consumer based pricing to their
$7 after taxes pay the people have. Big divide! 
St. Louis minimum wage will drop from $10 to $7.70
in that the workers all need to strike! That is a point of a Revolution!!!!!
http://www.cnn.com/2017/07/07/us/st-louis-minimum-wage/index.html

It is a Revolution everywhere. No one likes Trump and what is going on!
"Nightmare nominee: Nobody likes Donald Trump. Not even white men."
https://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/plum-line/wp/2016/03/31/nightmare-nominee-nobody-likes-donald-trump-not-even-white-men

No stupid Confederate flags flapping on the back of a rolling coal truck
or the KKK having their day on your day!
"Those who believe slavery was not a central point of conflict in the Civil War may wish to peruse the South Carolina, Georgia, Mississippi and Texas declarations of secession. Those documents all explicitly cite threats to slavery as reasons for secession. Mississippi's declaration goes so far as to say that “a blow at slavery is a blow at commerce and civilization."

Many say it's about states rights... But to ask why... 
Property Taxes on Slaves... Slavery! Without slaves there would
be no taxes!

Slaves where not brought up they where kept down.
Slaves where not free, slavery did not make salves free!

Celebrating people not being free is a view that needs to go!
It's time to grow up! Bring people up not keep them down! 

The removal of Confederate monuments is a needed thing

to grow up from the times of being kept down.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/06/22/confederate-flag-racist_n_7639788.html

"The KKK rally in Charlottesville was outnumbered by counterprotesters
About 1,000 counterprotesters were there, said city spokeswoman Miriam Dickler.
Shouting "racists go home," the crowd drowned out the Klansmen's chants of "white power." Despite police lines, a few brief scuffles broke out. Counterprotesters tried to stop the Klansmen from entering and leaving the park, video showed."
http://www.cnn.com/2017/07/08/us/kkk-rally-charlottesville-statues/index.html

No more Kellyanne Conway on TV!
When will Dick get down with Jane?
"Oh, see. Oh, see Jane. Funny, funny Jane." Oh please!
No one would care because everyone is looking for a brighter day!

Think about all of this!

Sunday, August 13, 2017

Family Budget on Children Wages, Panhandle

There are issues with adults making children wages.
Not being able to live normally as in not being able to get
a car with the banks under writer saying "Sorry your income is too low!
Yet alone have money for the tag. Noted a concern when I look for
a car the $400+ tag fee. So there are many cars with no bumpers in the
400,000 miles still on the road!

Other points is the unavailability to put in for retirement as there is really no
401K's in those low paying jobs and ending in not able to put in for retirement.
Small towns have many minimum wage retires making what they where
making 20 years ago. Worked hard made the same pay still living on it!

Walking without a car. I see that a lot everywhere in Oklahoma.
Voluntary repossession for food money. Cutting down your food cost.
In bad times I can cut my food cost to around $16 a week so to me
inflation is not a issue as I just won't buy the high dollar stuff.
Like when milk jumped to $4 a gallon I didn't drink milk for years.
No sales! "If they wanted me to buy that then they would of paid me better!"
Walk away!

So that is the main point here the lack of sales! "You can make it but they
can't afford it." Like how small towns bring in things the many can't afford.
So they don't go there. Or the rich people from other towns go there only to meet
the people in town driving cars with no bumpers. Or walk with no cars.
In that is a good thing needing more poverty crusades. As more poor people are
needed to just get some tea in those places dressed homeless!
To bring up the point of higher wages needed. And to show how lazy
the whole town is because of the masses of poor!
To show the town is not brought up yet!
It's like a protest over your pay but not at work!!!!

Anyway low pay these days is just a lot of people doing without living
a third world life style! No AC because you can't afford to use it.
You never needed it anyway there are many people elsewhere that
don't use it! Do you need it... NO!

"In many parts of the world, a lack in economic development might be to blame for a widespread absence of air-conditioning at the moment. However, that doesn't explain why even most Europeans ridicule Americans for their love of cooling and lack of heat tolerance."

But many in Europe and else where can't use AC as there would be no resources
to support it.

"The bottom line is that America's a big, rich, hot country," Cox told The Post. "But if the second, fourth, and fifth most populous nations -- India, Indonesia, and Brazil, all hot and humid were to use as much energy per capita for air-conditioning as does the U.S., it would require 100 percent of those countries' electricity supplies, plus all of the electricity generated by Mexico, the U.K., Italy, and the entire continent of Africa," he added.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/worldviews/wp/2015/07/22/europe-to-america-your-love-of-air-conditioning-is-stupid

"Obama: ‘Planet Will Boil Over’ If Everyone Has A Car, A/C, And Big House."
Is true!

So in America the poor is really poor in that many live like Europeans but
in America in the lack of sales is a no growth as the many poor do without
knowing they never needed it anyway.
Like with me I haven't seen a movie since 2003 because of the cost but noticing
I don't need it's view. "We have to create culture." - Terence McKenna
https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/175716-we-have-to-create-culture-don-t-watch-tv-don-t-read

Where is this going? Low pay is not good for growth. Noted as why small towns
have nothing because they make nothing. High prices goes away to consumer based
pricing of low pay the many in small towns get. They can't grow if the people don't
grow because they make Children wages.

Makes Children wages, lives like a Child! Pay peanuts get monkey's!
Noted issues in Oklahoma and why I think it's ok to panhandle for what you
want. Many construction workers work in the heat for beer in reality and so
should a panhandlers as they are out in the heat also.
They need to be real about it, it's about the beer ok! So with that with the
low wages does it have the value? is it worth being suck at work for 8 hours
a day making $7 after taxes? Would a panhandler be willing for that?
With the low pay you get monkeys so to me with issues of the labor force on
who will pass the background checks for work there are many panhandlers
that could work for the low pay. Always good for the workplace!

It's ok to panhandle for what you want! It's a job also,
being the poor just gets what they need as they are not paid to consume!
http://www.newser.com/tag/13118/1/panhandler.html

So what do you need to live on? To me it's funny as I make nothing.
I know they have to raise the pay sometime they can't have all the
poor bring it down to their level because of consumer based pricing
over the poor that does without! 

~~~~~Family Budget Calculator
http://www.epi.org/resources/budget

~~~~~Can 2 Parents, 2 Kids Live on Minimum Wage? Not Even Close: Report
No matter where they live in the United States, minimum wage workers with kids earn far less than they need to make ends meet, a new report shows.
https://www.nbcnews.com/better/careers/can-2-parents-2-kids-live-minimum-wage-not-even-n418931

The Libertine, accepting her for whoever she is



A good point in life is to talk! What are your hopes, dreams and desires.
Having your needs accepted is the point. If you can't talk or be accepted 
for who you are then... People in hell want ice and how long do you wait?
It's better to talk and make those agreements. Accepting each other is for
each other it's about that love!

Or to say what are you waiting for, if someone loves you let them in
for that talk!

That is the point it's ok to be open with each other.
To have that talk in life is needed. To accept her for whoever she is!
No one really cares anyway!

~~~~~The Libertine (1969 film)
This is a sex comedy film about Mimi (Catherine Spaak), a young widow who discovers that her recently deceased husband kept a secret apartment for his kinky desires. Frustrated that he did not explore his sexual fantasies with his wife, she embarks on a quest to understand perversion and sexuality. She uses her late husband's apartment to seduce various men, each time learning more about the depths of human pleasure, as well as the extent of the sexual double standard for women (late in the film, she states, "I notice men only call me a whore when I say no. Or stop saying yes."

Finally, she meets the man who shares himself fully with her, appreciates her sexual daring and accepts her for whoever she is.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Libertine_(1969_film)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KqCntVOclF0

Saturday, August 12, 2017

Love has no boundaries, The Love Project



Love is timeless so in view it's best to just be open about things.
Why just waste time, time away when you will open about things
when you get older.

There is that point to grab life by the horns,
and you can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket!
It's about those things that have meaning to point about love 
not having boundaries! About that love and support regardless
as life has that long road!

~~~~~New Sexual Revolution: Polyamory May Be Good for You
On Valentine's Day, images of couples are everywhere. They're buying each other diamond rings, making eyes over expensive restaurant meals and canoodling over chocolate-covered strawberries and champagne. But two-by-two isn't the only way to go through life. In fact, an estimated 4 to 5 percent of Americans are looking outside their relationship for love and sex — with their partner's full permission.

These consensually nonmonogamous relationships, as they're called, don't conform to the cultural norm of a handholding couple in love for life. They come in a dizzying array of forms, from occasional "swinging" and open relationships to long-term commitments among multiple people. Now, social scientists embarking on brand-new research into these types of relationships are finding that they may challenge the ways we think of jealousy, commitment and love. They may even change monogamy for the better.

"People in these relationships really communicate. They communicate to death," said Bjarne Holmes, a psychologist at Champlain College in Vermont. All of that negotiation may hold a lesson for the monogamously inclined, Holmes told LiveScience.
"They are potentially doing quite a lot of things that could turn out to be things that if people who are practicing monogamy did more of, their relationships would actually be better off," Holmes said.
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/new-sexual-revolution-polyamory