Monday, June 27, 2016

Working with banana fans down the stairs



Work as it is these days or ether you are just getting out there on your own
or even Teachers teaching the kids to be out there in the world you will
need to note times are crappy right now, but better days are coming!
The pay and help is looking to go higher.

Please have no fear as all it does is make it bad for yourself and others!
This can be seen as in true love being true, open, willing like a love sick dog.
If its fake then it fades away and moves on in time. Time tells!
That is a good point of life and a point of working.
If it's worth it, it's worth going into the fire distressed going down the stairs for!



But there are times at work where times are bad and you need to
know to look ahead and recognize what ever it is and know it's just
venting or just hot air. In that case know it's more like they gave you
a banana fan for you to keep cool! Now you know they don't know what
the hell they are doing, it's a panic!

I have been hearing this stuff from a few workers and also the pay is too
low for what they are doing so they just work the wages they work.
That is fair really. In the long run a banana fan running all the time you
will tend to just work half ass also. And I also must say workers will also
work like a banana fan. I notice that a lot in my town. Stop that!
If it's crap well it's crap stop hiding that fact, stop panicking!


Why? Well banana fans tend to burn up in time just stand out of the way
and just let it blow. You can't have the good without the bad.
These things take care of themselves . It's really like in the view of the pay
will have to go up or have most sales go down from the broke people!
I mean if they won't listen to you and you can't change it let it go, it will blow up
so you can say banana fans don't work!

*I had a college instructor that had a poster in his office
"The Raft of the Medusa." At the time I liked the poster but
later I found out it has to do with getting into the light from
cannibalism. Funny the point I didn't know till later the meaning
of the artwork. Because it pointed to life is not always what it looks like.
But in the end there is light!

 http://robertreich.org

Saturday, June 25, 2016

Pegging

One of the funnest things I learned in college didn't have a name back in then.
It only now has a name for it "Pegging."

Why do this story? Well I was a Psychology major and reflecting on some
classes I took, Deviant behavior, Human sexuality or Sex therapy, relating
to Psychology. The point is the same. To have a positive result.
Anything that is negative is really not worth doing and is detrimental to
any kind of growth in a interpersonal circle. 

I was going to do my term paper on something like this once but
my college instructor called it inflammatory so I had to redo it!
So, now I do need vent my education on this subject because for one
I recognize the reason for the behavior and I do see it as needed to
resolve problems or connect in a reverse manner for a life changing event.

A Positivist view on being deviant these days? With people growing up about it,
it is clear deviancy today is shown as the people wanting to keep the norm
without any evolutionary processes.

This subject can be seen as inflammatory but then not when you know that,
people that are sexually repressed tend to snap and do such things and worse,
because it's not for the other person it's more of a rapist thing.
You would not like to be left out in the stocks overnight without a
jar of Vaseline behind you in a Quaker town.

Why well the worst comes from repressed societies.
As like the Quaker torture devices. Or the Spanish Inquisition.
And these days the "Saddlebacking" If it can't be had they will find
a way to do it! Most know even in my school years that the catholic girls
where the dirtiest!

Also noted is a sick breed of people that puts a light to the real sick people!
The types that get hit in the head with education but don't recognize it.
"Something hit my head, it was a junebug!"

'The neologism absexual has also been introduced by Queen, although it was
coined by her partner. Based on its prefix ab- (as in 'abhor' or in 'abreaction'),
it represents a form of sexuality where someone is stimulated by moving away from
sexuality or is moralistically opposed to sex. Betty Dodson defined the term as
describing 'folks who get off complaining about sex and trying to censor porn.'
As of 2010 absexuality is not an official psychiatric term; though note the mention of
absexuality in a psychiatric manual in 1988, a decade before Carol Queen popularized
the concept in feminist circles. Queen proposed inclusion of the concept in the
American Psychiatric Association's DSM-5. Darrell Hamamoto sees Queen's view of
absexuality as playfully broad: "the current 'absexuality' embraced by many progressive
and conservative critics of pornographic literature is itself a kind of 'kink' stemming from
a compulsive need to impose their own sexual mores upon those whom they
self-righteously condemn as benighted reprobates."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carol_Queen

So all of this has to be noted and seen as hypercritical
the judgemental the judging of people. The dark with the dark is still dark.
With no light of a women pegging her partner for all in involved to
have meaning in each others life you see the difference you see the light.
Being real about each other not hiding who they are. People that hide snap!
That is the deviant behavior!

It's best to be yourself regardless of others personal hell.
Wanting you to be like them in their own hell.
Don't fall for that trap! Just evolve around them!

Being real about it many women like doing this and there is a reason why.
"Woman A: Pegging is great because it puts you in a role you're not really
used to being in as a woman. There are aspects of dominance, power, intimacy,
and strength that I don't think we get to experience in quite the same wordless way
when it comes to vanilla sex."
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a33458/sex-talk-realness-what-women-think-about-pegging

"Since the release of 'Bend Over Boyfriend,' an educational film released in 1998,
there's been more discussion and awareness of prostate stimulation enhancing
sexual pleasure for men."
http://www.yourtango.com/2012151624/pegging-101-what-you-need-know
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bend_Over_Boyfriend

And you need to be real about and know why do it!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uR5YgZgokCU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MUfqt4lLZzg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UT4Zz4bONlo

Why called Pegging? The neologism "pegging" was popularized when it became the
winning entry in a contest in Dan Savage's "Savage Love" sex advice column,
held after an observation was made that there was no common name or dictionary
definition for the act in the English language.

Advice columnist Dan Savage wrote that he believes all men should try pegging at
least once, as it may introduce them to a new enjoyable sexual activity and illuminate
them to the receiver's perspective in sex.
***But note it is for all. It's not for one person.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pegging_(sexual_practice)

To further understand you will have to note Pegging is really a tool for
a peak experience noted from Abraham Maslow.

An individual in a peak experience will perceive the following simultaneously:
  • loss of judgment to time and space
  • the feeling of being one whole and harmonious self, free of dissociation or inner conflict
  • the feeling of using all capacities and capabilities at their highest potential, or being "fully functioning"
  • functioning effortlessly and easily without strain or struggle
  • feeling completely responsible for perceptions and behavior. Use of self-determination to becoming stronger, more single-minded, and fully volitional
  • being without inhibition, fear, doubt, and self-criticism
  • spontaneity, expressiveness, and naturally flowing behavior that is not constrained by conformity
  • a free mind that is flexible and open to creative thoughts and ideas
  • complete mindfulness of the present moment without influence of past or expected future experiences
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peak_experience

Note the "the feeling of being one whole and harmonious self, free of dissociation
or inner conflict" part. This would and should be shared between both partners.
It's about the "Inner conflict" resolving that is the key to a better life.
And is the point of this story to understand and accept both partners for
who they are. Resolve the conflict!

Pegging a guy does not mean the guy is gay. There is no conflict with that.
And to be real about it and real about who you really are. (Warrning - Gay/Not Gay)

Really Pegging is just a form of Psychodrama related in a Role reversal.
Pegging should not be seen as deviancy there is a reason
for this behavior no matter what people say. Noted in a fetish?
That is a fulfillment, a keystone of life. With purpose not a deviancy without benefit!

"Psychodrama is an action method, often used as a psychotherapy, in which
clients use spontaneous dramatization, role playing and dramatic self-presentation
to investigate and gain insight into their lives."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychodrama

"Role reversal is one of the psychodrama techniques that demonstrate a
protagonist’s interpersonal conflicts deeply and explicitly on the stage."
"This technique not only helps the protagonist get more insight of a specific role but
also helps the director, the auxiliary egos, and the audience learn more about that
specific role." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Role_reversal

***I have to note working in a hotel in the 90's I was working a banquet with
Dr Ruth as the speaker. At the time she was talking to older couples on
bonding practice. She was talking about anal sex. This was funny as anything
but it was the part she said about "to penetrate the shell you have to get in the shell."
Meaning hard inner conflicts. It was the point she said not to ram it in there etc.
Sometimes you can't get in the shell so ask your partner to take a beep breath and
hold it, then you poke in the shell! This stuck with me mostly as a light for me to
be alert if I hear someone tell me this at work "Take a deep breath and hold it!"

Sunday, June 19, 2016

Do You Good Helping Relationships



What is your normality? How do you know if it's in a box?
This is a real issue when you reflect on what you are missing!
And I am not talking about being selfish in a relationship.
As in being in love, with a married lady. The willingness to be
her other half supporting, making better positive is not selfish!

There is that point of trust and understanding of a helping relationship!
Life would be better for all if we could just be ourselves.
Accept others for who they are and who they can be!
To be open with each other is needed more these days!
"I love your Gypsy wife" and also to say "I would make her
a better person." Not to be selfish taking her away but to add
to her a better Gypsy in return. Happy landings make Happy takeoffs!
Everyone would be better and just dance around as themselves!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tbBVsk3k-S8

And that is the point of this all to have a helping relationship for all!
To do you good! Be good for you!

~~~~~Helping relationships – principles, theory and practice
The foundation of genuine helping lies in being ordinary. Nothing special.
We can only offer ourselves, neither more nor less, to others we have in fact nothing
else to give. Anything more is conceit; anything less is robbing those in distress.
Helping demands wholeheartedness, but people find it hard to give of themselves
to others. Why? In essence we are afraid to offer ourselves for fear we will prove
insufficient, and if all that we have and are is not enough, what then?
We are afraid to risk using simply our own warmth and caring, and as a result
the thousands of therapy techniques which are becoming increasingly popular are
intended to conceal rather than reveal. (Brandon 1982: 8-9)
http://infed.org/mobi/helping-relationships-principles-theory-and-practice

Saturday, June 18, 2016

Pot Roast and Kisses



Anything worth it is worth being in a fire for! There's a fire in the kitchen!
Longing to say please take me to your kitchen let's work on a pot roast!
Pot Roast and Kisses? Well yes I hope.
In life you have to make a pot roast sometime!

~~~~~Classic Beef Pot Roast
If you're looking for a traditional pot roast recipe, try this 5-star, no-fail version. 
Cuts of beef that perform well for pot roasting go by many different names: Blade roast, 
cross-rib roast (or shoulder clod), seven-bone pot roast, arm pot roast, and boneless 
chuck roast are all acceptable cuts.

1 (3-pound) boneless chuck roast, trimmed
1 teaspoon kosher salt
1/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
2 cups coarsely chopped onion
1 cup dry red wine
4 thyme sprigs
3 garlic cloves, chopped
1 (14-ounce) can fat-free, less-sodium beef broth
1 bay leaf
4 large carrots, peeled and cut diagonally into 1-inch pieces
2 pounds Yukon gold potatoes, peeled and cut into 2-inch pieces
Fresh thyme leaves (optional)

Preparation

Preheat oven to 350º.
Heat olive oil in a large Dutch oven over medium-high heat.
Sprinkle chuck roast with salt and pepper. Add roast to pan; cook 5 minutes,
turning to brown on all sides. Remove roast from pan. Add onion to pan;
sauté 8 minutes or until tender. Return browned roast to pan.
Add the red wine, thyme sprigs, chopped garlic, beef broth, and bay leaf to pan;
bring to a simmer. Cover pan and bake at 350° for 1 1/2 hours or until the roast is
almost tender. Add carrots and potatoes to pan.
Cover and bake an additional 1 hour or until vegetables are tender.
Remove thyme sprigs and bay leaf from pan; discard. Shred meat with 2 forks.
Serve roast with vegetable mixture and cooking liquid. Garnish with thyme leaves,
if desired.
http://www.myrecipes.com/recipe/classic-beef-pot-roast

It's never too late to be a astronaut


There is a point in life where you need to ask yourself why am I
running in around in my career and stale life...
Same as it ever was, Same as it ever was...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I1wg1DNHbNU

There is a point to be open to what you need want in life.
To be open with each other let the wife have a boyfriend etc,
bringing her peace in her life not people calling her crazy,
because they don't understand life! Ask why is she crazy, fix it!
Find someone for her best interest!

And the point is... Stop hiding who you are be open to each other
in your needs and dreams. Is not living the way you need to live
vs to make happiness for all the point of life worth it?
Why live in hell wanting, but not getting!

It's ok to get what you need in life. No one wants to be trapped.
So you better find yourself to get your worth!
It's never too late to be a Astronaut!
http://www.cc.com/video-clips/hf1p92/upright-citizens-brigade-prostitute-barista

http://www.businessinsider.com/wireds-kevin-kelly-on-career-reinvention-2014-8

Friday, June 17, 2016

Pay not matching inflation so cut back spending



Like I say "If they wanted me to buy something then they would of paid me better!"
I do without! There are many things I stopped buying like I did in the 2000's!
By the way something worth $20 in 2000 is now worth $27.90, that is how much
more you have to pay for something now vs in 2000!
http://www.usinflationcalculator.com

So being the pay is not going up the sales go down.
And shows in the mass of overstock mostly the high priced
stuff. http://yrc.com/about-2/news/news-items/us-businesses-overstocked

People in Oklahoma still cry about oil prices being low but fail to say
people spend less on oil than they do of food and other things.
Like driving to Walmart using $2 worth of gas to buy $100 worth of
stuff at Walmart! And to say Walmart is doing good being more people
shop there vs other places losing their value as the prices go up.
Walmart saves you money and is why people shop only there more often.
Sort of like Walmart did to the down town in the 80's!
I shop at Walmart myself being I support the workers and also am broke.
I know I am shutting down many places as I join the party.
The poor will bring you down with them as noted in my state with the sales
tax going down. As the poor does not buy high dollar things we pay
a lower sales tax making less funding.

Also is the lack of medicaid expansion to help people pay for their
healthcare instead dumping it on the people making low pay making
less pay for them to consume. The ACA is only a issue to the people
that make children wages. Children don't buy insurance!
The ACA is working good in other states I mean they should be
working to make it work better for people and stop fighting it all the time!

All of this will grow! But down the line it looks like the pay will go up
within three years as I see. People with money to burn is better than
doing without people! With better pay it's best to spend what you earn to help
society, make better jobs, better schools, roads everything!

~~~~~Why Aren't Wages Outstripping Inflation?
MONTAGNE: Give us the basics. Wages are supposed to grow, and historically
they have done that faster than inflation. So what's happening?

WESSEL: Well, you're right. Since the end of World War II, wages generally have
risen faster than inflation. That's why we have more goods and services than our
grandparents did. And as recently as the late '90s which were a pretty good time for the
U.S. economy - that was happening. In the in past year, though, average hourly earnings
have risen 1.9 percent. But consumer prices have risen 2 percent, which means when you
adjust for inflation, wages haven't gone up at all. There are broader government measures
that factor in the cost of wages and benefits to employers, and they've gone up roughly
the same amount. And it isn't just one bad year. The typical man between ages 25 and 54
is making less today - adjusted for inflation - than a comparable man was in 2000.
For women, the picture's better. Their wages, on average, have gone up a bit.

 MONTAGNE: Of course, for most individual workers, this is not so great.
But what about the larger economy?

WESSEL: Well, consumers are a big force in the American economy.
And in the mid-2000s, a lot of them managed to borrow money credit cards,
home equity loans and the like - so their spending could go up faster than their wages
did. But that's over. That credit is harder to get now. So, to a very large extent,
companies that sell to consumers - particularly to that large number of lower and
middle-class families - their business is constrained by the fact that people don't have as
much money, a function of how many of them have jobs and what their wages are.

On the other hand, the combination of rising wages in China and the stagnant wages here
is making the U.S. a more attractive place to produce from many companies.
That's one reason lower labor costs at U.S. auto companies are doing so well,
selling so many cars, putting workers on three shifts and stuff like that.
So there are some benefits for producing here. But if you depend on selling to consumers,
you don't have the money.
http://www.npr.org/2013/08/27/216006343/why-arent-wages-outstripping-inflation

Thursday, June 16, 2016

The guy that burned up in the car



The point of this story is note about suicide a needed point to
say there is no glory in death and to point about materialism all high
and mighty degrading to living in a trailer park is not worth ending it
over. Really what are you killing yourself over?
Would it matter five years from now?

When I was a kid 1979 I think, me, mom and dad took
my friend home, he lived at a trailer park that was not too far from
the river. It seemed like a good location really a place I would like to
stay at in the summer. Well driving back out we had to go
over a bridge and as life happens a guy decided to kill
himself by stopping in front of us in his car in the middle of the
bridge. He put gas all over him and in the car and lit a match... Boom!
We all saw everything. Shocking and for me asking why
do such a thing. Psychotic doing it!

We found out about it, the guy killed himself because
he was high up with a good life but crashed all the way
down to living in a trailer park and he could not take it!

So in that today I am talking about this because the point
that life is worth more than people know.
An added point I learned of not taking life serious!
Look what the serious does to you!

The point is to not be psychotic and live on, let it go!

Are You A Visual Thinker?



One of my views I stand by is to respect what you know.
Don't pretend to be stupider than you are. Why?
Mostly people rely on you! Learning should not be held back!
Learning all you can is more for you to rely on down the road!
It cuts through the dogma or the dogmatic views helping people
so we all can live a trioecious life. Why can't we all get a long?!

As for my own life I have a big background. keep in mind I don't know
everything but I am able to put it together if I am asked or pointed to the
question. I can relate the question to something from my past that relates
or I just relate it in a mental rotation / visual thinking to understand it.

How, why? I don't know if it relates or helps but when I was 8 I remember
being in a boat with my sister and brother I remember the boat flipping over
and as I was under the water for a bit I ended up with a Jellyfish in my mouth.
The body was in my mouth and the tentacles where on the outside.
It kind of stung my face so a swam backward to keep them away from
my face. I ended up biting off the tentacle part and ended up swallowing
the damn thing! WTF? Well this relates to what is called Prevagen the stuff
that is has some Jellyfish in it. Keep in mind I was 8 and I just got a massive 
dose of it! So for me at that age with my brain still developing it might of 
jump started me. https://www.prevagen.com

Jump started like to mention that when I was a kid my "Object Permanence"
happened far sooner than expected. I am advanced in that cognitive stage when
I was a kid. I remember playing ball and slightly seeing the ball go under a couch.
I knew it was out of sight so it was gone to me but also knew it went under there.
My first paradox in life!

So I put my hand under the couch not sure if my hand would disappear and I felt
something and I pulled it out and when I looked at it. It was my ball and at that moment
it set off a something like a seizure. I remember shaking bad, like my neurons had
a massive connection wire up at that moment, like a PC reboot. 
Boom, boom norm, just like that.

And when I was a kid I remember getting slipped some kind of drug by a
homeless person. I ended up meeting the Machine Elves!
http://non-aliencreatures.wikia.com/wiki/Machine_Elf

They where dumping a lot of info on me and I was processioning it.
Then the next thing I knew they stopped like they where concerned they
where overloading me being my age. But I said I was able to go on and
I did until they said enough and they retreated as the trip faded.
I did not understand why they where attacking me with information
like it was a hate attack then to suddenly stop and be concerned about me.

So really I would say I am like I am, from many things.

Like I am:
http://walmartramen.blogspot.com/2015/09/visual-spatial-intelligence-test-or-who.html

Tuesday, June 14, 2016

49 killed and 49 birds

Forty nine is a lot of people to fly up for a decision on afterlife,
reincarnation etc. The angels are busy with that one!
Boom you are a bird for now. Well life is not the end anyway!
It's hard to look at the nonlinear when you are linear
on the ground. But it's clear to me and too far cool to not say something!

~~~~~49 birds appear over Orlando shooting victims memorial
When we're confronted with something as tragic, as difficult to cope with,
as the Orlando shooting, some of us will look for solace in the divine.
And in those moments, the little things -- ones that don't lend themselves to 
ready explanations can take on great significance.
This is the story of one such moment.
 
As the names of the 49 victims of the Pulse nightclub shooting were being 
read at a vigil in Orlando, a photographer noticed something up above: 
A flock of birds flying by. The victims: 49 lives cut short
She snapped a quick photo. But it wasn't until she counted the birds in her frame 
that she was truly surprised: There were 49.
"I then showed everyone around me and had them count," she said.
"We were all stunned."

Monday, June 13, 2016

Genie in the bottle but I end up in the sand a lot!



I have experienced this much of my life. The most valued in your life
is untouchable, or never gets there. Like having so much to offer,
but it is really like chasing women that like to be poor, miserable
and stay untouchable!

With me it's like I would have the secrets of the universe
and am like the genie in the bottle. But I end up in the sand a lot!

Lovesick? Yes! I am a loving person but deprived as it seems.
Like by the time I wake up and know, she is gone.
Had a soulmate in the 90's I should of been with but I was sleeping! 
And other women I should of been with and when I got ready for them,
they ended up being gone, with me missing out!
Missing out as I know too much and accepted a lady for who she is and
was looking forward to the knowing too much part with her! Deprived!

My horoscope does hit the mark but for me to know today's horoscope
I need to look at tomorrows! Points to being off a bit!  
But as I say love is timeless! 

In my life I loved a many that I did not need, but still love anyway, timelessly!

My girlfriend when I was in high school was a EX teen prostitute.
I dated a EX Prostitute! Nothing wrong with that!

I dated a hairdresser, high and drunk a lot barfed on the first date and
took me to a gay bar took me home had a morning after looking
at her sleeping thinking how did I get here, she farted in her sleep!
She was a abused by a biker gang woman in her past and for this
all to happen on the first date does not happen. A strange man in bed
with her, she would be alert to my every move, with no farts from her.
Sigmund Freud would be impressed by the trust I gave her!
I dated a hairdresser abused by a biker gang, out there, wow!

I dated a lady I found on the internet in the late 90's. She was a lady I seen
before. With me on my High School bus on a dark cloudy day I seen her and
her kids fly into an intersection going backwards after a burnout or something
like it. Only to stop in the middle of the intersection with a beam of light
coming through the clouds shinning on their car and only their car.
Then she put her hands in the light waving them, like saying whoa cool!
This happened when I was in High School.
She was another Red-String in my life. I met her before I met her!
A beam of light on her, a spotlight!
I did not find out that was her until after we dated!
And to note pointing to my recurring number 48 she was 48 when I dated her.
I dated a fun crazy woman, cool!

I dated many a strange more than I will say here, and that's ok!
Other than loves is the point I am still here. Had a cursed car wanting to kill me
four times. Got hit by a car doing 45mph on a moped doing 0 and here I am.
Why don't people see me as a keeper in love? I'm a keeper as I am still here kept!
I don't know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What about now? I am stone in love with a married Gypsy woman!
Put dark sun glasses, stiletto's on her, give her a glass of wine
and put her in Pompeii. Boom, boom she's got us all on our knees!

In fact I am on my knees with her! I'm a desperate man!
And I have earned my way to be a desperate man!
I dated desperate women most of my life and
it's my turn to be desperate! 

I can say it! I love her! Lot's of my time thinking is spent thinking I
want to go home with her wanting that talk.
You don't put a leash on a dog then let him wonder the streets,
you take that dogie home! Yes I am begging dammit!
As I say a lot you loose nothing and gain everything! 
Happy landings makes happy takeoffs!


And that is not a bad thing! I have heard this from the 90's from my college instructors,
professors, my friends and these days from my EX wife and a few strangers I blew out
telling them about a few of my past loves. It's like the same.
"You don't need a girlfriend you had plenty they don't work for you, what you need a
married lady she will be good for you!"

So in that, well I know they are right, but then I am in the sand as the genie in the bottle
again. And again I say that's ok. I know what I need and if nothing, 
I know that I earned my way from all my past loves.

My path in life and the all around strange in my life points to married 
and there is really no other road I would want.

A married Gypsy woman is a singularity a beauty!

Well do I want to be able to say I date a lady panhandler? I don't!
I do want to say I date a married Gypsy, oh god yes! I really do need that in my life,
and we would be good for each other! To say you love someone is a powerful
statement. And well to be in love with a married Gypsy lady well duh yes!

Just in the sand but I long to say "I met a strange lady, she made me nervous."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XfR9iY5y94s

To note, my protected destiny rubs off on people or like my Zodiac sign 
you would be covered by my shell! It's good to keep me around! Forever?
Everyone needs that! So like a crab you will find me in the sand! 

Note I am not saying I am a Genie, Jinn. That is in term a fallen Angel.
I am not saying I am a fallen angel but depends on whose arms I fall into!

Sunday, June 12, 2016

Safe Zone Gay Bar



This story is to point you don't have to be gay to go to a gay bar!
Yes, people that are not gay go there! People gay or not are people!

I dated a lady hair dresser for a time in the 1990's.
She barfed on the first date, then she took me to a gay bar!
She smoked weed and liked to go at gay bars being she had a hard life she
was abused by a biker gang lady that had a death threat on her
so she felt safe at a gay bar that was her security.
I'm not gay, she was not gay it was her security to go there.
Guys don't hit on women in a gay bar!

I have to note there is a sanctuary for many gay and straight
at the gay bar. Yes you can go to a gay bar if your not gay you just need
to have enough smarts to not act stupid.
Just be real knowing where you are!

When I was there in the 90's the times where different.
For the time me and the Hair dresser where pioneers in
that we both where not gay or BI and yet we both went
to the gay bar. For her is was her security blanket and
noted for many it's the same sorts out there or not.

Me? I am supportive and the healer in my relationships.
Bulldoze me put a leash on me it's a long term by your side
till the end! That is just how I am! Never a bad thing!

At the time there where many types that went to the gay bar
you get the few of people like the guy with a leash on that
the lady had on him! Yes... that was accepted in a gay bar.
Where else would it be accepted?
One lady two guys. Married lady with lover etc.
These days polyamory is the norm there!
All of that because the love behind it is respected.

If you love her take her to a gay bar!
It's also a test of love by the effort of doing so for her.

But it was the point the lady was the queen of them in that manner.
It gets odd when it is reverse like the men are the king and has the women
on the leash. That was not accepted well in the gay bar in the 90's
and even now I am sure. It just doesn't fit in well.
Those times where different! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FEkTq_euf58

The point many need to know is that a gay bar would be a place not
only for security it's a place where you could let your free spirit fly or
where you can be within your innermost self without people calling you
crazy! It's not crazy it's just cake by the ocean for many!

~~~~~Dear straight people, this is how you should act in gay bars
Gay bars are not just for LGBTI people, we all know this, but it is a sanctuary for them.
We all know that feeling when we see a drunk straight girl angry she’s not getting any attention or when a straight guy reacts badly to getting hit on.
So a gay guy has absolutely nailed how the straights should act when they’re in a gay space, and it essentially comes down to ‘have respect’.

Reddit was asked: ‘Gay men or anybody – Do you find it slightly weird or disrespectful when a group of straight people (often liberal college girls) want to hang out at gay bars or clubs?

And one user responded by saying: ‘Speaking as a gay guy, I don’t think it’s categorically rude; it depends on the circumstances, and how the straight person in question acts while there. I have written an open letter to the straight community to explain the nuances,

‘Dear straight people:
‘Generally speaking, you are perfectly welcome in our bars, as long as you keep in mind that they are spaces that are not intended to cater to you – if you think that’s unfair, then go cry about it ANYWHERE ELSE IN THE WORLD, since that’s the space that DOES cater to you, pretty much exclusively. You know that sense of discomfort and alienation that you sometimes feel in our bars? That’s how we feel in virtually every social space we go to, so please do not begrudge us this one public place on Earth where we can pay for the “privilege” to hit on, dance with, and make out with people we actually find attractive without watching our backs.

‘For straight women, respecting the importance of our sanctuaries means that you should recognize gay bars are not an ideal place to hold your bachelorette party (in jurisdictions where we are not allowed to marry, that’s particularly tacky); that, if you are a young attractive woman, you will not be the centre of attention that you are accustomed to being in straight bars, and that just because you are among a bunch of gay dudes does not mean you have free reign to drunkenly grope us on the dance floor or at the bar (by the same token, we do not have the right to paw at your boobs just because we are gay; I invite you to put any drunken gay lout who does so firmly in his place).

‘For straight men (particularly good-looking ones), you should prepare for the very real possibility that a gay dude might make a pass at you while you are at a gay bar. If you can’t find it in yourself to politely decline a pass from another guy, then stay the hell out. Most of the time saying something like, “I’m flattered, but straight” will be the end of it, but remember that some gay guys are jerks, just like some straight guys are jerks, and will likewise not respond well to having their advances rebuffed. If you don’t think you can handle that, then you can be sure that your night will be better spent in a straight bar, no matter how much better our music is (and it IS).

‘Finally, for straight couples, try to have some decorum. We don’t resent your dancing together or engaging in modest displays of affection. If, however, you descend into a full-blown grinding/makeout session on the dance floor, it kind of sends the signal that you are trying to lay claim to our space, and we may not take kindly to that. Again, you can console yourself with the knowledge that you can do that kind of thing pretty much anywhere else on the planet; you should be more than content with that.
‘In closing, feel free to come to a gay bar, as long as you respect the fact that it’s a GAY bar.

Florida gay bar shooting not norm

I feel for all the victims and to all I need to say you are safe.

This kind of thing does not happen a lot! The shooter is just
a reflection just like uneducated holy rollers bombing abortion
clinics in the 90's. I would be more worried about the mental ill
having redneck rampages because they don't understand life!


It's is clear the shooter also was anti gay as expected!

So the view I see is much like a uneducated redneck holy roller having
a redneck rampage. The shooter had a rampage because of BS!

BS as in being anti gay but fail to look at pederasty in their own
Islamic religion past! The Catholics also did such!

And being homosexual was norm in the past in Islam!

The centuries immediately after Muhammad's death led to a rapid growth of the
Islamic empire accompanied by increased prosperity. Some Muslims bemoaned the
general "corruption" of morals in the two holy cities of Mecca and Medina, and it's
clear that homosexual practice continued (in a subterranean manner) despite its
growing condemnation by the religious authorities. In fact, it seems to have become
less hidden as the process of acculturation sped up, such as in the area of music
and dance where mukhannathun were prevalent. The arrival of the Abbasid army to
Arabia in the 8th century seems to have meant that tolerance for homosexual practice
subsequently spread even more widely under the new dynasty.
The ruler Al-Amin (809-813), for example, was said to have required slave women
to be dressed in masculine clothing so he could be persuaded to have sex and
produce an heir.

Abu Nuwas (756-814), born in the city of Ahvaz in modern-day Iran, became a
master of all the contemporary genres of Arabic poetry; sharing Al-Amin's love for
men and composing poems celebrating such love
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_in_Islam

Thursday, June 9, 2016

Lovers in the Ancient world

These days I do hope people look at how they are living
when looking at the life from the past. They might see they are
still victims of the dark ages even today.

Why die without making a mark in life. Anything worth it, is worth
going into a fire for! There is nothing worse than being a worker and
dying in a corn field with everyone not knowing who you where.
Just some person that died. Life does not care otherwise it goes on
around you as you just sit there doing nothing!

Sex in our history is something that needs to be looked at a
code that needs to be cracked! Or live a distressed life today!

http://www.publishersweekly.com/pw/by-topic/industry-news/libraries/article/55717-the-7-weirdest-sex-stories-of-the-ancient-world.html


Monday, June 6, 2016

Hillary Clinton Wins Democratic presidential nomination



Clinton has won the Democratic nomination. A first for America in it's 240 year history!

"Hillary Clinton clinched the Democratic presidential nomination Monday, according to
CNN's delegate and superdelegate count, and will become the first woman in the
240-year history of the United States to lead the presidential ticket of a major
political party."
http://www.cnn.com/2016/06/06/politics/hillary-clinton-nomination-2016/index.html

For all Democrats I would advise standing by her. Keep in mind her E-mail issues
is not really a issue. Colin Powell and Condoleezza Rice used private accounts for
classified emails also. This is nothing new even the FBI was looking at porn.
http://walmartramen.blogspot.com/2016/02/hillary-e-mail-colin-powell-and.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1352322/FBI-agents-slept-sources-watched-porn-work-searched-files-celebrities.html

Hillary's E-mails is no issue! And for her turning over her E-mails really?!
I would like to see the NSA do that! You can't do this stuff in the real life in
Government. It's noted the FBI has files on the CIA etc and E-mails are not
meant to be seen because of those issues of having a need to know point
in government. This helps keep the government in check in it's function.

And about the NAFTA? "More Republicans than Democrats supported NAFTA."

And in voting independent in reality is just stealing votes away!
Your vote could of helped Hillary win but you gave it away to a
Independent that won't win by reality, numbers are numbers!
Now we have Trump walking in making America great again like the
dark ages! Well if it happens it's your fault for voting that was or just not voting!

Anyway you see it Hillary is the nominee and it's time to pull together because
she is the Warrior! 

Sunday, June 5, 2016

Muhammad Ali



Muhammad Ali will be missed. There is a point when you
realize how important someone is realizing people are more
than they are seen as.

I remember finding out about him not going to the Vietnam War 
because of a noted point of life being important.
I did respect that because there was more to Muhammad Ali
than boxing!