With me the thing I don't like is the waste of women being codependent. I point that women should think for themselves. Living badly in a everchanging environment makes a disabled, disadvantaged living. If so then others take advantage of people like that or is just for them to be ignored.
I don't like Amish women on the way they are treated. Bad futures in a changing world. No 401K job skill gaps. Society needs to get brought up not to go down to a lower level all society is that way if no mobility then... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ORUFnYrV7h4
Mostly an attitude / way of thinking holding people back. Also a point to all to understand. Living disadvantaged and confined is bad, like dating only in your group it bottlenecks the genepool, Inbreeding. (Anabaptist groups are highly inbred because they originate from small founder populations that have bred as a closed population.) Small towns are known for that. Would be better to know about the old bottleneck problem and be more diverse.
I noted this once the best thing for the world was the entire world population could fit within an area roughly the size of Los Angeles, California. What a better time to have a orgy. Would disable xenophobia by the best motivating healer sex! Bottleneck well not at that point seen in view of the laws of nature and the human species going on than to fadeaway. (It's better to burn out, yeah, than fade away! - Def Leppard) We have before!
Well Love The One You're With. About 35,000 years ago, Homo sapiens and Neanderthals lived within shouting distance of each other in France and Spain for, at the very least, a few thousand years. If they mingled, some might have gone farther. There is a skeleton of a boy, found in Portugal, who lived after the last Neanderthals died in southern Spain, whose body seems to be a hybrid, part them, part us. https://www.npr.org/sections/krulwich/2013/03/08/173813194/what-happened-when-humans-met-an-alien-intelligence-sex-happened
It's just the laws of nature it's who we are. That view would make things better of the human race. And a light to Sonder: "The realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own, populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk."