I Wanna be your lover. Not just be your friend!

It's ok to take in a few lovers if you want them! It's about the point of value,
taking in the good in your life. Society needs and is growing up.
Accepting the cause and effect in ones life of why a lover is needed is
gold and is ok these days. If not people need to grow up about it!

It's ok to have lovers being the reason they are there.
Lovers makes stable as life is better not alone.
Lovers protect the lover keeping her out of harms way. Protecting her
from herself in reality from going over her cliff or making something better
than that cliff. Something better. Being open and true, educated about it is
needed as it's a life long thing. It makes for life long lovers as it's accepted 
for what it is.

If there is a attraction in that you look at her and she looks at you, talk!
Tell him to sit down for that talk because life is better with more support.
That is the point to take in that good like the warm sun on a cold day!

A life with lovers these days is in the same light of being gay in the 1950s!
But we are not in the 1950's so society is growing up not wanting to go back.
And I hope more people see the acceptance of something with a purpose
and knowing not, is just treating people bad. For why? Not being grown up! 
https://www.upi.com/Top_News/Voices/2018/08/16/Sex-and-gender-diversity-is-growing-across-US/8641534422918/?rc_vo=1

~~~~~Having Multiple Devoted Boyfriends Is Wonderful, 
Polyandrous Women Confirm

Like Jislaaik, Andromeda's ideal relationship scenario would be with three husbands. As Andromeda's name suggests, polyandry can contain elements of goddess worship, as well as men's rights activists' worst fear: female superiority. "There is a couple I worked with in couple's therapy. They had a set-up where it was a man and a woman. The woman had other male lovers, and they did a lot of worshipping to Lakshmi," says Dr. Renye. Lakshmi is a Hindu goddess associated with wealth and fortune. "There was an element of in their relationship where it was almost the expression of abundance of wealth through the devotion to Lakshmi, which was symbolized through the devotion to this woman."

Dr. Renye works in San Francisco, and most of the other women spoken to for this article either live in New York City or Colorado. Some women in less progressive areas of the country report difficulties finding men to enter their desired relationship model. "I haven't had the privilege to find my two or three men," says Rachel, a 28-year-old from Georgia, adding that she's been called a slut and whore for bringing the idea up. "I really haven't had too many experiences with [polyandry], as it is very difficult to find a man or men who are open-minded [and] can also deal with the idea of being involved with a woman who has more then one man."

If you're a woman looking for multiple men to devote themselves entirely to you, established communities of polyamory or kink may be your way in, as both promote the communication skills and the open-minded attitude necessary for polyandrous relationships. "Honestly, in the kink community, it might be easier for women to have multiple male partners," says Jislaaik. "I had been hearing from cuckolds and other men who had no problem with the idea of women with multiple partners, while they remained exclusive to her. It's possible, after all."

When asked if she's seen female clients have success at polyandry, Dr. Renye, like Jislaaik, says that most of them had come to the relationship structure through established polyamorous communities. When asked what advice she would give to women seeking polyandrous relationships, Dr. Renye responds, "If that's what's desired, create it—because it's possible, but no matter which people are seeking in love and sex, there is inevitably somebody else out there who is also seeking that."

And what about the men? "To the man, I would call it as a psycho-spiritual development exercise. It would be a practice," she says. "[Observe] his feelings and experience and communicate about it."

And of course, remember to worship your goddess.
https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/mgmmk4/having-multiple-devoted-boyfriends-is-wonderful-polyandrous-women-confirm