Life is too short to not build! It's 2020 and facing COVID-19 a time to be open! Polyamory working it out for our natures. Agreements to each other making it better for all of us so we all can be who we are!
Efforts happen for a reason and one should not be ever willing to live in their personal hells forever. There is that time to grow up as you think how much time do we all have? Might I get building this! Something all should think about! Like the saying "Show them the building." Counselors or Therapist where into saying at the time. Show them the building. (The effort!)
~~~~~My entry into the world of polyamory was rough, to put it mildly. I first began to experience what I would term “poly feelings” about three to four years ago, in my early 20’s. At the time I was in a long-term monogamous relationship and I was talking with an ex — when I realized I still had feelings of affection and even love for my ex…
This caused a massive cognitive dissonance. After all, I was in a monogamous relationship — and in love — with my current partner. She gave me no cause for complaint and made me very happy, so why would I have these feelings for someone else? https://solopoly.net/2012/10/26/kbs-story-rocky-intro-to-polyamory-but-worth-the-effort
