As in the point of polyandry, open marriage or not like the wife's mistress a male equivalent etc. "A mistress is in a long-term relationship with a person who is married to someone else..." Those types are long term because of the work in such anyway. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mistress_(lover)
"Being financially supported, especially by a wealthy older woman, he is a "sugar baby", "kept man" or "toyboy." It's better to just respect her stature being her lover staying out of her way not at a cost to her! Those things are to make sure her lover is up to her level if there is a income divide needing a quality of life fix!
These days the rules of engagement for the wife's lover. She is not his and her husband is not his so he is hers! Being in such relationship sort of like the lover throwing his keys at her, throwing himself at her feet, I am yours do what you will! Well he is her's he can't tell her what to do so he has to accept her nature, being her's making a better nature!
The Libertine! "Finally, she meets the man who shares himself fully with her, appreciates her sexual daring and accepts her for whoever she is." The ending of the movie is where the beginning. "This scene involves Mimi's first sexual conquest and the most important, character-defining line in the entire movie is!" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Libertine_(1968_film)
Phyllis and Aristotle?
"The tale varies in the telling, but the core of it is as follows: Aristotle advises his pupil Alexander to avoid Phyllis, the seductive mistress of his father, the king, but is himself captivated by her. She agrees to ride him, on condition that she play the role of dominatrix. Phyllis has secretly told Alexander what to expect, and he witnesses Phyllis proving that a woman's charms can overcome even the greatest philosopher's male intellect. Phyllis is also described as Alexander's mistress or possibly wife, rather than his father's." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phyllis_and_Aristotle
But anyway it is the point acceptance is not disgrace as life is short to not do so!
"Proving that a woman's charms can overcome even the greatest philosopher's male intellect." , "No, I Seduced You!"
