Self-Actualization and Conservatism

The point of Abraham Maslow and the Psychology of Self-Actualization and Conservatism being against your own people keeping them low. Or fascism in the decline of the people in it is not sustainable. "Fascism fundamentally restructures society to serve the totalitarian state, suppressing individual rights in favor of extreme nationalism, authoritarian control, and militant expansionism Historically, this has led to devastating social impacts, including the dehumanization of minorities and the mobilization of the population for war." - AI note.

"Conservatism in every place and time is founded on deception. The deceptions of conservatism today are especially sophisticated, simply because culture today is sufficiently democratic that the myths of earlier times will no longer suffice." https://pages.gseis.ucla.edu/faculty/agre/conservatism.html

To it being adverse to "Abraham Maslow's theory of self-actualization posits that it is the process of fully realizing one's potential, a peak need reached after satisfying more basic needs for physiological well-being, safety, love/belonging, and esteem. He described self-actualized individuals as being creative, accepting, autonomous, and concerned with humanitarian purpose, driven by intrinsic motivation and a desire to contribute to the world. While Maslow's hierarchy of needs suggests a progression, he later acknowledged the order could be flexible, and most behavior is multi-motivated." - AI note. 

You can not have that if you are living in a decline against your own people and yourself in quicksand!

In the world of getting out of the MAGA cult!

In the world of getting out of MAGA it is the same as getting out of a cult. And for others not into MAGA they are a cult so act accordingly! 

Also I need to note is best to make friends than to not make friends or be extremist. Not like a method called Love bombing but. 

Treat people with respect. 

"Be kind. Be respectful. And when someone tells you not to do something, don’t antagonize it or brush it off. Real emotional maturity is learning how you affect people in the real world. “No Victims, Only Volunteers” doesn’t apply here. If you hurt someone, you hurt someone. Learn from it, apologize and try to do better next time. We are all human and make mistakes and its okay to admit it when we do." 

Mind your own business. 

People can share with you what they want and friends don’t need to interrogate each other for the sake of “accountability.” Normal behavior is people slowly get vulnerable with each other and when a topic comes up, we treat it with empathy and respect. We don’t need to railroad someone into oversharing with us. And learning to keep someone else’s confidence is crucial. We don’t need to tell other people’s business, even in the same friendship circle. People get to choose their audience with their stories, and its not up to you to share their business without their consent. 

https://www.esaalliance.org/how-to-make-friends

https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-cult-of-trump-a-leading-cult-expert-explains-how-the-president-uses-mind-control-steven-hassan/12f5925dc70b7cbb?ean=9781508294177&next=t&

Everybody loves a lover polyamory.

In our relationships it's just a matter of how you make it. Relationships should be free they shouldn't cost anything it would mean you are declining. Love is just how you make it, so it's best to accept things for the benefit of both. https://www.discoveringpolyamory.com/polyamorous-relationship-models

I need to note extremism is violence. Charle Kirk.

I need to note extremism is violence. Like you wouldn't let your extremist kids play in the playground with the other kids because someone would get hurt. It's a bad with bad makes more bad kind of thing. Violence? It's sad but not surprised when you promote it. https://www.cnn.com/2025/09/14/business/brian-kilmeade-fox-news-apology-homeless - https://www.msnbc.com/msnbc/news/stephen-miller-charlie-kirk-podcast-appearance-jd-vance-rcna231444

A point extremism is violence is to incite violence like not something we all did declaring independence from the British or even "During World War II, the United States engaged in a direct military and ideological fight against fascism." to one persons ill or like a homeless persons point of view because the United States would not go to war for the issue of a few as life is but it's American as a whole! Being against fascism is the history of America. It's best to learn about American history! https://www.unodc.org/e4j/fr/terrorism/module-2/key-issues/radicalization-violent-extremism.html - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti-fascism

Karma? He answered a question about mass shootings before he got shot. Said with mass shootings that people might have to get shot. There is an open carry law that lets people carry guns around normal people don't like that just putting bad with bad more bad things happen. Both where College dropouts. Interesting karma is real. Extremism is not happiness it came in a circle and that is Karma. https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/open-carry-laws-make-securing-charlie-kirk-style-events-difficult-rcna230656 - https://www.instagram.com/reel/DOcAg0SDcPD

~~~~The difference between Republicans and MAGA Republicans is violence. https://cvp.ucdavis.edu/insights/difference-between-republicans-and-maga-republicans-violence

~~~~I need to note both where College dropouts in only the first semester. "Science proves that racist, sexist people lack intelligence. A study in Psychological Science shows that those with lower cognitive abilities feel more prejudice towards people of different races, genders, sexualities, and spiritual beliefs." So really in both it was two bads meeting together and accordingly! Shooting Kirk was not a logical resolve. And Kirks pushing all bad being against you get the bottom of the barrel. Running on emotion says not developed yet. "The frontal lobe reaches its full maturity around the age of 25." but doesn't mean it is turned on yet could be a delay in maturity. But low is low in a time of people needing to go higher you find more social pressures trying to get job skills for the future. Social problems and the people that cause them you get strain! https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charlie_Kirk#:~:text=Kirk%20applied%20to%20the%20United,dropped%20out%20after%20one%20semest - https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tyler_James_Robinson -https://medium.com/the-virago/hateful-people-are-less-intelligent-according-to-science-070c439800b7 - https://walmartramen.blogspot.com/2019/08/hate-has-regional-roots-in-poverty-and.html - https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/gen-z-men-jobs-economy-workfore-participation-rcna232537

~~~~Social media users quickly pointed out all the conservatives who posted tasteless comments in the wake of other tragedies.

For instance, progressive activist and Parkland school shooting survivor David Hogg reminded McCain that, among other things, Utah Senator Mike Lee made now-deleted jokes on social media after Minnesota Democratic state Rep. Melissa Hortman and her husband were assassinated in June. 

Activist Fred Guttenberg, whose daughter died in the 2018 Parkland shooting, reminded the daughter of former Sen. John McCain of the patriots who tried to publicly hang Mike Pence on Jan. 6.

Others joined in, noting how President Donald Trump mocked the 2022 attack on Nancy Pelosi’s husband, Paul, and also the way Trump treated her dad before he died in 2018. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/meghan-mccain-roasted-after-claiming-left-glorifies-death_n_68c48635e4b0b3dca95eddc2?origin=home-whats-happening-unit

"The truth is spend years spreading hate and disinformation you create dangerous conditions for others and ultimately yourself." https://www.youtube.com/shorts/zq-tnEjmTB0

"To honor our fallen insurrectionists please observe a moment of violence." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tnJkxMLjkU4

It's best to not promote violence as the extremism is violence it is not sustainable! Accept others, help the helpless as you know no one is a island! The consequence of being well adjusted is happiness. And so I would say the can't seem to connect action or behavior to future consequences is a high issue in a society that has no foundations to do so. Society is too low in much parts!

"It's no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." - Jiddu Krishnamurti

Also I need to note is best to make friends than to not make friends or be extremist. Not like a method called Love bombing but. "Be kind. Be respectful. And when someone tells you not to do something, don’t antagonize it or brush it off. Real emotional maturity is learning how you affect people in the real world. “No Victims, Only Volunteers” doesn’t apply here. If you hurt someone, you hurt someone. Learn from it, apologize and try to do better next time. We are all human and make mistakes and its okay to admit it when we do." https://www.esaalliance.org/how-to-make-friends

DuGBuGoffice - WalmartRamen Rebrand

It has been a long time since I changed my logo and being these days I needed a new look.

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Reminder: It is time! DuGBuG office urges the push for humanity because we all are the same. "We Are All Made of Stars." - Moby

 

“Runs of homozygosity” or ROH in fact we all carry ROH, because going far enough back in time we are all related. https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0013996

Just let it out Love is a way to say it - Norway’s casual dating!

 

For me dating married women or not like the point to be open and talk about it. I really miss people taking the initiative like many in my past 90's thus how you know to understand. A lady telling me to sit down and we talked on a piece of paper because we didn't want the co workers to know. 

A married lady with five kids after I told her my feelings about her she told me to get in the car went for food had that talk. 

Another woman I only dated twice, we went out for coffee and I kept looking at her legs like adoring her she grabbed my leg and put my leg on top of hers but then pushed it back and put her leg on top of mine I moaned and she like said yep we are going to be good lovers. 

Other my boss she told me to stay when I was heading out the door after work and after the others went out she said lets get dinner. I took the semester off college to date her. Took me back to college and payed for the next semester in her way to let me go back to college because I felt the pressure to finish! 

The point is to "Just let it out!" Like to get that woman out of you, it's about your happiness mostly a better life about something that cushions better for both win, win equal love, willing needing to note life is short so ask what is good for you "Love is a way to say it." Open that door for that talk no more hem and haw if you don't know then he don't know it's your life in a time of shortness! Life long!

To decide to "Take a ride.
You don't even have to mean it
And if you wanna stay the night
I promise I'll keep it secret
Stay awhile
Baby, you won't regret it
Just let it out
Love is a way to say it."

Life is too short to not "How to get romantically involved with a Norwegian!" All of this is only the point to take the initiative like a flower if it's ready it blooms if does it does it don't it don't and is not the point, the start is to start is all! https://skolerom.no/en/undervisning/how-to-get-romantically-involved-with-a-norwegian/#

If and when the vibe is right. Could this counter-trend be a model for happier, more honest relationships? https://www.flashpack.com/us/solo/relationships/norway-dating-culture

What to be done to cool your city!

In the summer you ever notice the difference from rural temperatures vs a bigger city in how it just holds the heat more. Or even how hot things are when a parking lot is covered in black tar to it holds in heat more. Something needs to be done a bit of effort! White is prime for a swimming pool for suntanning like in the days. More trees in more locations would help anyway. Overall we need a solution than not!

~~~~"Heat islands" occur when cities replace natural land cover with dense concentrations of pavement, buildings, and other surfaces that absorb and retain heat. The heat island effect increases energy costs (e.g., for air conditioning), air pollution levels, and heat-related illness and mortality. Extreme heat events often affect certain populations first, with factors like age, race, income, and location playing a role in who is most at risk from extreme heat. By adding natural surfaces like vegetation back into communities, green infrastructure can mitigate the heat island effect and provide cooling.

Rising temperatures are expected to lead to more frequent, more intense, and longer heat waves during summer months. As heat waves and rising temperatures occur, green infrastructure can be a crucial tool for communities to improve health, safety, and comfort. https://www.epa.gov/green-infrastructure/reduce-heat-islands